LIES!

   A couple of years ago during a break up with an ex of mine. I ran across some of her close friends at the store. We were pretty close to each other like literally three feet apart. I spoke, looked directly in their eyes, stopped waited for a response. But I guess my invisibility powers were on point that day because they walked RIGHT PAST ME with out speaking or acknowledging me in the slightest. hmmm...that's interesting? I felt like john cena for a moment. LIKE HELLOOOO! "You cant see me?!?

      I thought I was close with these people. A simple break up shouldn't make people act different towards me. After all I didn't break up with you. I broke up with her. Aaaaaaaaaaany who...
     Some months down the line. We rekindled the flame and resumed our relationship. And that particular couple ran into some life hardships that we all go through and had to stay with, guess who? That's right>>>> Mr. Invisible<<<<
     It was awhile before I even brought up the situation to them and asked them what that was all about. They began to tell me the things they were told. With HUGE alligator sized chunks of information missing...Story looked like a donut....but I digress.
    So we talked, story got filled in, they apologized, we moved on. Till this day still have love and respect for them.

LESSON!!!
   1. Be Careful how you treat people based on what you were told. Their story(perspective) contains their prejudice. Just like in court both sides should be heard to determine the truth.
    2. Lies told on you serve as seeds for your credibility in the future. Heres what I mean.
The truth is the truth regardless of your belief. It WILL ALWAYS COME OUT. When that happens your integrity in that persons mind will get a HUGE boost. And the word will spread from them to everyone they lied to...about you.
    So my people When you're lied on, talked about, and ridiculed. Just remember that you have two UNDEFEATED ELEMENTS on your side. TIME and TRUTH.

REAL  CHARACTER is how well you treat the people you DONT like.

Matthew 25:40⁴⁰ And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

                                    Thanks for reading                                    Sincerely,

                                                                                                             Malcolm Brown

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